sdelmonte: (Default)
Alex W ([personal profile] sdelmonte) wrote2009-10-07 09:08 pm

(no subject)

There isn't any easier way to say this.

We lost the baby. Yesterday morning.



To forestall the likeliest questions:
* We're both about as close to okay as it's possible to be under the circumstances.
* This is not private. Please don't hesitate to tell anyone who you feel should know.
* Currently we are still planning to attend OVFF at the end of the month.

I'm not disabling comments but I may or may not be answering them.

[identity profile] zellion.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no; I am so sorry. My prayers will be with both of you.
vivien: picture of me drunk and giggling (blue angel)

[personal profile] vivien 2009-10-08 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear this, Alex. My prayers are with you both.

[identity profile] bercilakslady.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
I am so, so sorry.
misslucyjane: poetry by hafiz (earth rise)

[personal profile] misslucyjane 2009-10-08 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] dawning-star.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
My prayers are with you both. I'm so very sorry.

[identity profile] allisona.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so very sorry. *hugs for you both*
wakeupnew: Joshua Chamberlain staring into the distance, with caption "brains are sexy" ([scenery] purple)

[personal profile] wakeupnew 2009-10-08 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
I am so, so sorry. Love for you both.

[identity profile] cassildra.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
Trevor and I send our love.
poltr1: (puss_in_boots)

[personal profile] poltr1 2009-10-08 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
Crap. *hugs* to both of you.
newredshoes: possum, "How embarrassing!" (onward onward)

[personal profile] newredshoes 2009-10-08 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
All love to you both. Nothing less.
campkilkare: (Default)

[personal profile] campkilkare 2009-10-08 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry.

[identity profile] canadabear.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, the both of you, I'm so sorry.
ceitfianna: (cat face)

[personal profile] ceitfianna 2009-10-08 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. I'm sending good thoughts and prayers your way.
gramarye1971: (Darkness Rune)

[personal profile] gramarye1971 2009-10-08 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I'm so very sorry. You'll both be in my thoughts.

[identity profile] gnomi.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
We're both so sorry for your loss.

[identity profile] joecoustic.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.
varadia: (Inside/Outside)

[personal profile] varadia 2009-10-08 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
I am so, so sorry.

[personal profile] hms42 2009-10-08 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
I am sorry for your loss. I just heard about this. :(

[identity profile] fireskin.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
Oh hun. :( *HUGE HUGS FOR YOU BOTH*

[identity profile] jerusha.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 04:02 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and Batya.
silveraspen: tree branch with pink flowers seen through fog and mist (blossoms in a misty rain)

[personal profile] silveraspen 2009-10-08 04:02 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, Alex. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
mdlbear: (rose)

[personal profile] mdlbear 2009-10-08 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
You have my deepest sympathy. We lost our second daughter about a month before her due date, on August 4, 1990.
ext_27060: Sumer is icomen in; llude sing cucu! (Default)

[identity profile] rymenhild.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
ext_11871: (Default)

[identity profile] weaverandom.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
Oh Alex. I'm so, so sad with you. My thoughts and best wishes are with you and Batya.

[identity profile] starmalachite.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 07:47 am (UTC)(link)
My deepest sympathies to you both. You'll be in my thoughts & prayers.
innerbrat: (grief)

[personal profile] innerbrat 2009-10-08 08:01 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, Alex, Batya, I'm so sorry.

Do please take care of yourselves.

[identity profile] buongiornodaisy.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 09:54 am (UTC)(link)
:(

*hugs*

[identity profile] osewalrus.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 10:34 am (UTC)(link)
I can only add my name to the list of comforters. Take comfort and take heart.

[identity profile] filkertom.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 10:49 am (UTC)(link)
Oh man. Alex, I am so sorry. Virtual hugs and sympathies and whatever else you need to you and Batya and your family.
wanderlustlover: (I Hurt Too -- Unknown)

[personal profile] wanderlustlover 2009-10-08 11:18 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs for you both*

[identity profile] dimloep-suum.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] filkerdave.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] mabfan.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)
As she said. We're both very sorry.

[identity profile] steahl.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:48 pm (UTC)(link)
...

I love you both. If you need anything please let us know.

[identity profile] rushin-doll.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't really imagine what this must be like, but my prayers are with you both. I wish I could offer more than that, and if you need me for anything please don't hesitate to ask.

With you in grief,
Ana

[identity profile] bigfluffball.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:58 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs tight*

[identity profile] maya-a.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so very sorry.
Please tell us if you need anything.

[identity profile] avariel-wings.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, my loves. I'm so, so, sorry.
Edited 2009-10-08 19:17 (UTC)

[identity profile] drcpunk.livejournal.com 2009-10-09 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
We are so very sorry. Hugs all around.
lunamystic: ([bones] Hug)

[personal profile] lunamystic 2009-10-12 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Just saw this, Alex. I'm so very sorry. My thoughts are with you both.

[personal profile] mm_madb 2009-10-15 09:49 am (UTC)(link)
I missed this post and only found out when Batya told me last night. I am so, so sorry for your loss. As I told her, if there is anything at all that I can do please let me know.